" A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers" - Robert Quillen.
Eph. 4:32
And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
The statistics of the rate of divorce all over the world is not only alarming but also very disturbing especially for the sake of the unborn child and generations to come. The number one culprit that has brought this trend to our present world is unforgiveness. We need a new culture, the culture of forgiveness. The reason why people hold on to offences and harden their hearts instead of letting go, is because they do not know how much of a blessing it is to forgive. When you forgive you are showing mercy but more importantly, you are planting seeds of mercy for yourself that will bring a harvest of mercy into your life. Trust me, we need mercy because we're not perfect.
Learning how to love and forgive someone is one of the most important things we can learn. Holding on to hurts and grievances puts us in a state of bitterness which does more harm to our being than anything else could. We rob our own selves from personal peace and happiness when we refuse to practice the act of always forgiving. Pride and egocentricity either on the side of the woman or on the side of the man or with both parties, form the major cause for the failure and dissolution of many relationships and marriages that otherwise should have become a wonder to behold. But where there is the culture of forgiveness, pride and egocentric behaviors can never fester.
What is love? Love is act of endless forgiveness, always having a tender look for others even when it appears as though it's difficult to. Love is simply making it a habit to treat people better than they deserve. You will be happier and more excited when you walk this path of love. You'll suddenly realize that you're free from anxieties and tensions. This is the way to improve the quality of your days on this side of Heaven. This is how to put more life into your days. So, take responsibility for your life, learn how to always forgive, and as a result, that happiness that you so desire will become a tangible lasting experience in your relationships.
Keep Loving, Keep Living...........LOVE ISSUES
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LOVE'S CULTURE
Dr Mrs Blessing Ogbonnaya is a Relationship expert with a passion to spread light, love and positive vibes on the matters of Love, all kinds of relationships, courtship and marriage.She's a seasoned relationship expert who lives to sweeten people's lives by making them realize and believe they're special.
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