LOVE'S CHOICE

"Intimacy without commitment is defrauding. Intimacy without friendship is superficial. A relationship based on solely physical attraction and romantic feelings will only last as long as the feelings last" - Joshua Harris.

According to social scientists, it is said that romantic love (the love that is birth out of strong feelings) is a deeply transformational phenomenon between two people caught in its web but the truth of the matter is, it only last 18 months at maximum and its never lasting or better still lets say the intensity of which it began can not be kept on a constant plane, it comes and goes,it diminishes,never constant. This is so because its a feeling,typical of every other feeling.

Behavioural cognitive emotional arousal is a name given to a natural cause of the flow of adrenaline into the system of a man. This happens when his brain translates what his eyes has seen or beheld in the opposite sex. it is like how we all get watery mouths when we see a very sumptuous meal placed right in front of us,and such translates to confessions such as 'oh am in love' or 'I have fallen in love'. A relationship that is a product or solely based on this is one already planned from the beginning not to be lasting.

True love is an action,a deliberate choice or decision that brings all that feeling(romantic love) when it has matured and its time is right,provding the assurance of the presence of such intense feelings of love. The passage of time together in friendship and respect is a crucial element of grown_up love. Now you know better,make it count and let it give you lasting happiness.

Keep Loving,Keep Living.........LOVE ISSUES.
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