RELATIONSHIP TIPS: WANTS OR NEEDS

What Real Women Want


1) UNDERSTANDING - Women are emotional beings and this is one value that appeals to them. They appreciate that their men are understanding to all needs and are always willing to let them know it's as important as they are to them.

2) COMPASSION - Every woman wants a man that is loving and caring and who knows how to express it to them. Women are looking for compassion, tenderness and love.

3) HONESTY - This is one value that every one desires so much in their mates even when they don't have it in themselves( funny, isn't it?). Honesty is a sign of security and does a lot in the fabric of any relationship.

4) HARD WORK - No woman wants a lazy man in all aspects. A man who isn't hardworking is a liability and that would only make things worse for them both. A real woman wants a man who exudes strength both physically and spiritually, in mind and heart.

5) COMMITMENT - Real women want a man that would be committd to them and all that concerns them. This is a sign that she would have no need to worry.

6) ATTENTION - Every woman wants a listener, one who gives her a listening ear. She wants a man who is ready to just listen to what's bothering her without necessarily providing solutions. Once she shares it, she believes it's been solved.

7) CHARM - A woman wants a charmer. Be it in his looks, the way he dresses, his charisma or his sense of humour, every woman appreciates a man who knows his God given talent and knows how to amplify it.




What Real Men Want



1) Loyalty: Every man would not trade this for anything in a relationship. Loyalty is as important as a king's crown is to a king. A man uses your loyalty to him to determine the outcome of your friendship/the relationship.

2) Respect: Now this is the twin of the first point spoken of especially in relationships, as they go hand in hand. If a woman does not understand what this means to a man, the friendship/relationship is as good as a dead end.

3) Realness: Nothing else attracts and keeps a man other than a lady being herself in every form from personality to appearance, name it. So quit d pretence and just be you.

4) Confidence: When a lady knows her worth and her values are not hinged on what she has or what she does but solely on her understanding of who Christ has made her, a real man sees in her someone he wants to keep for life.

5) Brains: I know how this is one very important thing that can't be missed when a man is asked for the qualities he would love to see in a lady. It's not too late for you to make yourself better and brighter. Always improve upon yourself. Read and re-read. Learn, unlearn and re-learn.

6) Beauty: As it's said, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. That's the outward beauty but that on the inside doesn't. As a matter of fact, inner beauty is the true beauty: sound character, kindness, compassion, gentleness, humility, love, joy, an attitude of servitude etc.

7) Hard work: Every real man wants a life partner to help him accomplish whatever it is he's into. By being hardworking at whatever it is you are doing now, you present yourself as someone who can help a man accomplish his dreams.

8) God: I guess this sums it all. Real men love a lady that reverences and honours God.


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