LOVE'S PERSISTENCE

If you love and get hurt, love more. If you love more and hurt more, love even more. If you love even more and get hurt even more, love some more until it hurts no more." - Unknown.


Eph 4:32 (NKJV)
And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.


Life is filled with so many beautiful moments as well as moments we wish we could change into good ones. Some people experience more beautiful moments than bad moments, while some others experience the bad moments more than the beautiful moments. Yet for some others both times seem to be in equilibrium. It's only normal for the inhabitants of the earth to go through good and bad times. The question I want to ask is, why do you think some enjoy more beautiful moments than others and why do some have more bad times than others? Could it be traced to the choices we make alone or the decisions we make that lead to such choices? Does it have to do with whether or not we allow love dictate the pace of things in our lives?

You see, mankind was made to have a free will. God gave humans the ability to make their own decisions. Our Creator's thinking was that if He had imposed His Will on us, the idea of making man in His image would have been completely defeated. So, He thought it best to make man a free moral agent. But there are people who do not still know this, they have not realized that we are a product of our decisions in life. Many are still yet to see that we are able, based on our choices, to make either beautiful moments happen to/for us or otherwise. Now speaking about love, based on the natural human feelings, when we have been disappointed by those we love and expected to love us or when we have been hurt by our friends and loved ones, sometimes we give up loving and before long there exists a bridge between us and those who have not treated us well. You even find that some people who were once disappointed by someone who claimed to have loved them become so bitter that they tend to think that love isn't for them.

The truth however is, in the same way a flower cannot blossom without sunshine, a man cannot live without love. We often have to will to love. To get more of beautiful moments we must endeavor to love again and again and again, no matter how much we have been let down and disappointed. You should go back to the basics, see where you had made mistakes, recognize your loopholes, acquire the right knowledge and seal them up. Open your heart again to love. For those of us who have been hurt by our friends or family, when you choose to allow love bridge any gap, you're already creating beautiful moments for yourself that people will see and want to emulate. So, choose to love again and again till it becomes a part of you. Love persistently.


Keep Loving, Keep Living...................LOVE ISSUES
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