Relationship Tips: Values of a successful Relationship (4)

Interestingly a couple of weeks have gone by and it's been so full of life and fun having to learn more about qualities that strengthen our love relationships and make it blossom every step of the way. I must state here that to be honest, maintaining a successful relationship can be quite demanding and it requires us to learn and be willing to unlearn things we got to know over the years that would not necessarily be of help to us in our love journey. I say this as today's value is one that seems somewhat hard to come by but I tell u, as someone has said, it's actually air to a relationship.

RELATIONSHIP TIP 4 - HUMILITY
According to the Oxford dictionary, humility is defined as the quality of having a modest or low view of one’s importance, or having a humble view of ones own worth. If I were to define humility I would say it's a strength that always seeks to prefer another and place someone else higher than one's self. As a matter of fact, people tend to see humility as a weakness. They see it as being belittled or maltreated. Such a view is as a result of not having the understanding that humility is actually such a great strength that only the brave and courageous at heart possess.

In the context of a love relationship, humility exercises itself as true love would and those who exercise humility take up their cross daily by laying down their selfish desires for the good of their spouse/partner. As a matter of fact, in almost all lingering misunderstandings, the absence of humility which of cause is the presence of pride, is at the very root and this only hastens the possibility of a breakup. Pride builds walls between two persons and this turns out to be detrimental to the health of any relationship. The healing process and connection is reinstated only when one turns around and is willing to break that wall. It could really be frustrating if the a particular partner is always the one calling the shots. That kind of situation can be a very difficult, painful and emotionally draining experience. However, it's refreshingly sweet if both choose to place the desire of their mate before and above theirs.

Humility is a value that would make your relationship strong and healthy, vibrant, alive and filled with love and joyful moments. It's left for you to work it out and to believe you can exercise it towards people around you especially your spouse/partner. The best of relationships around you demonstrate an unflinching spirit of humility. This quality is one very vital asset needed to make a relationship tick. Tap into it today and let your relationship be one that will inspire others.


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