THAT HOT BODY .

As she drove out of the mall's parking lot, Lindiwe kept thinking of the young man that had helped her with one of her grocery bags into her car.  "Oh thank you" she cooed and added" I thought I could get both packs myself on both hands, silly me I forgot I had got so many peaches in one" she smiled sheepishly as she opened the back seat and he handed it to her and said "Nah, that's okay, don't mention" and gracefully walked away.





She couldn't just stop thinking about him.  "Gosh that guy is so fine" she chuckled as she kept on thinking of his well chiseled face  one that could stop the opposite sex in their track, well defined, with a sharp jaw and angular cheekbones. Those eyes of his were like  shinny dark precious stones that kept your gaze locked with his.  His lips were the cutest she had ever seen, rounded full and pinkish reminding her of the her favorite fruit, the delicious peach fruit she had loaded her grocery with.





 His chest was broad and well sculptured . Muscles ripped across every part of his body in a lovely pattern ,like a fine piece of art work. Despite wearing a sweat shirt, she  still got  quick glimpse of his nicely arranged 6 packs, one that had similar outline just  like her  favorite actor, Brad Pitt in the movie, Troy.



 He was the epitome of masculinity, one that had complete features any lady would die to have as her man and not just a man but a man for keeps, a husband, a life partner. She had driven for 10 minutes when she realized that she had gotten back to her apartment, what usually took her minimum of 6 minutes due to being lost in the thought of a perfect gentleman at the grocery store and to know that he reminded her of the specifications of the kind of man she would want to have for keeps.



Opening the door to her apartment , she quickly got hold of her diary
And penned down "dear diary, today the 5th of December, I saw someone that reminded me of the kind of man I want , who knows he could just be the one I have been waiting for. I hope I see him again pretty soon again. With smiles brimming from the excitement, she dropped her diary and headed to her kitchen.




Yeah,  just like Lindiwe , we all have specifications of the kind of partner we want and forgetting to list out also  the character traits and values they should possess .  I probably might have left out one or two things that a lady would want in a guy but you all ladies know. Lol   What about the  other way round? Guys are certainly not left out.  They would want ladies who have pretty face, hot bodies with beautiful curves, the exact way the number 8 is, hair as long and curly as they can ever imagine , pointed nose and a perfect occlusion of Whitened teeth and so on but hey, do we really think all these are sufficient to keep a marriage sound and strong? They could be in the early phase of courtship and marriage but it becomes less of concern in the later years. For instance,  men might think  having a curvy lady that has got a good sex appeal is what it takes to set the ball rolling, Yeah I know that men are moved by what they  see, likewise women might think in the same vein  but they don't have to make a decision that important that affects the entire rest of their lives merely on the physical. The Mystery of a hot body only present when there is no diminishing  effects but as soon as that changes, nothing else holds sway.


Having these physical attributes in your spouse is good but it doesn't guarantee a lasting marriage. The sex appeal of a hot body will surely  diminish with time and usage, but what matters is the character and heart of such a person as the word of God says  in different parts of the book of Proverbs,  "House and riches are an inheritance from fathers: but a prudent wife is from the LORD"  also  " Most men wilt proclaim every one his own kindness: but a faithful man who can find? Let's major on the invaluable character of the hidden heart of a being and minor on what the naked eyes sees for when this is gotten right we are certain of a good start to a successful married life.

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