OF HAPPINESS OR REGRETS?

If the foundations be destroyed, What can the righteous do?
Psalm 11:3 ASV


In life there are a number of important areas we need to take care of. From growing up as children, where we depended on our parents for almost everything to becoming adults and taking responsibility for everything.
In between these developmental phases, a lot is to be learned that would make the demands and responsibilities of adulthood bearable but unfortunately, many people tend not to take things by chance and not by deliberate actions. You see, the good things of life do not come by chance, they are products of deliberate actions. When we decide it's time to be in love and start planning for a family, what deliberate decisions have we made or put in place?

In recent times, it's no longer news of how young ladies date married men or have men old enough to be their fathers as their lover or man-friend and then I ask my self, why would a young lady leave young blooded men for the opposite?  Some give reasons here and there but never good enough to justify such down graded lifestyle. Funny enough after these ladies have lived such lives they still desire to live happy with someone they eventually would want to settle with and start a family but it doesn't work that way. You see, life is governed by principles and to get the best out of it, you have got to position yourself in line with them in other to succeed.

It is disturbing to see young people let their raging emotions  have the best of them. They go into relationships too early for the wrong reasons without getting first things first, and right. King Solomon in the bible said wisdom  is the principal thing; Therefore get wisdom; Yea, with all thy getting get understanding. There for, people need to be reminded again and again that to get the best out of anything, love relationships not left out, one has got to choose the path  of wisdom.  Don't be deceived by what the media throws at you, God already said in his words that once the foundations of your life is shaken, everything else is at stake. No one else can make the decision for you, you have got make up your mind and follow the words of wisdom if you want to be happy in the matters of the heart.

Refuse  to let your past keep resurfacing in your future. You can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect different results, No! It's too costly to allow same  mistakes to ruin your happiness, present and future. Allow the wisdom of God's word settle in your heart and lead you in the way He has preordained for you, if only you would let wisdom build your walls, and understanding keep your from regrets. It's my prayer you allow this words cause a change in your life. If you need someone to listen and pray with you, I am all ready to. God bless you.

Keep Loving, Keep Living....... LOVE ISSUES.
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