I have always believed that women were created to be loved. As a matter of fact, to every woman, there is a man tailor- made for her. Every woman ought to be found by the love of her life and live happily ever after. This belief of mine came to me while studying the account of Adam and Eve in the book of Genesis.
It is said that Eve was formed out of Adam's rib and that singular act made the first woman to automatically become 'his' woman. That simply means, to every woman there is a man for her, if it were not so then her rib carrier wouldn't be in existence. As long as She exist, He also exist.Therefore, I say that there is a woman to every man.
Today,many ladies of marriageable age have and are still leaving with the notion of 'more women to less men' ratio in the world that the chances of getting a spouse will be such a herculean task. This fear has made many do what ever it takes to keep a man making sure they get the engagement ring. So what could it be that some ladies do to their men that makes them pop the question while some others wait endlessly for him to pop the question but it never happens, or even some women now take the responsibility of the man asking him to marry her instead.
As a woman, have you wondered why you keep getting relationships that never lead to a life long commitment? Has the question of '' what do other girls do that they get proposed to that I am not doing'' ravaged your mind? Do you keep getting or attracting men who never want to commit but just want to waste your time or use you for dress rehearsal?
Think deeply about this. If you really want that engagement ring then there are things you need to know, things you need to imbibe in your subconscious mind and live by to get the right man slipping in on your finger that object that symbolizes undying love.
Having an engagement ring on one's finger doesn't necessarily mean that it will lead to a sweet marriage anyway but you see, 80% of the time, it does and that's the starting point. Ladies, hear me well if you want to be an irrefutable and irresistible woman, that will attract the right man wanting you to be his for life then pay attention to the following...
1) Deal with you Mind: Change your mindset, change your life. “We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. If this has not yet been imprinted in your subconscious self, let it be from henceforth. Even the Bible says, As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is.
What kind of thoughts are you having about yourself constantly? Do you see yourself as one who isn't worth having the best type of man? Do you see yourself as a market commodity or as a trophy? Our mind is the first reality. How you carry yourself outwardly interprets how you see yourself on the inside. You have got to step up your game girl by stepping up the thoughts that goes on inside your head.
2) Deal with Yourself : By this I mean having to work on your character and behavioral disposition. I have seen people getting proposed to over another by just their sweet personality. I remember way back in the university, a guy asked me what my opinion was about two different ladies he was thinking of starting a relationship with. '' A'' was a good friend of mine beautiful, brainy and witty but had some nasty character issues. '' B'' was just a friend who wasn't so close to me, but had an accommodating personality. So I told him, '' B'' without even thinking of my reactions. Interestingly, He is married to '' B'' today.
Work on that character flaw you have today, don't let that bad attitude, being too self centered, always wanting to have your your way, being too clingy, being emotionally stingy etcetera ruin your chances of having a good start in relationship that could lead to marriage. If Jezebel could get a husband, she played her cards well, play yours better.
Another point is your outward disposition. Beauty they say lies in the eye of the beholder. For me, I like to rephrase it this way; every beholder appreciates some level or form of beauty. By this I mean, men are drawn to what they see. As you work on your mind and character, also work on making yourself look beautiful, sweet, smart and neat always.
3) Deal in Knowledge : To many, being in relationship is just what they need to deal with loneliness and the lack of companionship. They watch movies which makes them inadequate if they do not have a lover making them feel on top of the world. Unfortunately, some have tied their happiness to having a boyfriend or a girlfriend who keeps drinking from their emotional tanks because their feelings and the chemistry of their bodies are just on the rise. This is just summary of failed relationship, failed marriages and so on.
When we put the need to love and be in a relationship before the need to gather all the knowledge and information that makes successful relationships and marriages work, we make mistakes, heartbreak and regrets the future of that relationship. Do not awaken love until it so pleases. True love awakens after knowledge was the very thing it dreamed of.
4) Deal in Business : Money is good as a matter of fact, money is the answer to all things, as the Bible says. One can not successfully live in this earth without having money. We all want to have assets in our spouses not liabilities.
It's more enjoyable when you have your own. Gone are the days where women completely depended on their Husband's for succor. If you still think that way, now is the time to throw it away, far from you. Sit up and get to work. Turn your talent into a skill, it will fetch you money. Learn how to make business work, start one today. No one wants a liability. Now is the time to start building an empire.
5) Deal with Value : Price indicates value. How well you value your life indicates the price at all cost you are willing to pay to become a better version of you. Do not take your progress in life for granted. The worth or value you will have few years is dependent on the things books you read, the relationships or people you have and the knowledge you have applied. Never stop adding value to yourself and to others.
You can't be missed or should I say you can't have your lovely fingers missing that engagement ring sooner or later if you accept these that I have expatiated on. In no time, the carrier of the ribs where which yours was made from will start racing to you. I hope you got this.
Your Love Coach
@thelovejunkie
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