LADIES, HERE'S HOW TO MAKE A MAN LOVE YOU MORE

One of the most powerful connections here on earth is the attraction that naturally exists between a man and a woman, little wonder it was stated in scriptures as the fourth or last among things that the writer of Proverbs 30 said were difficult to comprehend. In another translation, he says it is too wonderful for him to grasp and that, of course, is the way of a man and his woman.



Men and women have been created to complement each other right from creation. When God made the first man and woman, He made sure He put not just one but quite a number of different factors between both of them that would always make themselves crave or want each other's company. He made man logical, a goal-getter,  strong and glory in his abilities to mention a few.  Women are the complete opposite. They are emotional, tender and glory in their love and attention-seeking abilities. They both are wired differently but still in such a way that they produce electric charges when connected together. So in order to get the best out of relationships with the opposite sex, it's imperative to know the basics about them.

Today ladies, let's talk about how to make our men, the man, and men to love us more. Our Men, for those who are already married and those who are in courtship or are engaged to their partners. The man, for those who have a number of guys around them as friends or in their friend zone and are hoping to get hooked to the right person. And lastly, Men, because despite married or not, in a relationship or not, men are everywhere on planet earth, at our workplaces, at the filling station, at our colleges and helm of affairs, etc and having to send out the right vibes will make living on earth as a woman more worthwhile.

1) Any woman that fears and has an outstanding relationship with the Lord is always a catch and great attention to men. Most men love women who have spiritual depth.  They know and acknowledge that women who have a strong connection to their maker are a plus any time any day. Men are attracted and naturally love women who can channel their lives aright spiritually and get great results. This is so because they can resonate with such a woman. They see a reflection of who they ought to be in that woman because what God expects from every man is to be the same, sound and deeply rooted in Him as the man was made to be the leader.

Women, you make your spouse or husband love and appreciate you more when you keep developing the God-consciousness inside you. Your husband not only loves you but he understands that you feel the need of God in all the areas of his life. Any man who channels this knowledge of his wife aright would always be the shepherd of his home.

Ladies, a note of warning here. You have to be wary of some men who do not have their own connection with God and might want to just use you. Be careful. The right order isn't for a woman to lead spiritually, she's to assists. Men who are wise are certainly not going to change that right order. I hope you know what i mean.

It is written that a woman that fears the Lord shall be praised; by both men and women, allies and even strangers.  Praise is the natural state of mind of Love. You can't praise someone if you don't love them. Want to be loved by men, stay rooted in Christ.

2) Any woman who is sociable and free-spirited is always a turn on for most men. Men love women who are not uptight or always to themselves. They love women who are open and can relate with them on their same page, at their own pace.  Men love women who can bring them out of their caves. As John Gray wrote in Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, He states that men are likely to become non-communicative when faced with a challenge, they would rather want to solve such problem by themselves but a woman who can help and suggest ways in a friendly manner help him overcome such a problem is a plus to any man.

Have you ever wondered why most ladies who act as tomboys get married even before all the pretty uptight girls? Think about it. I am sure you are nodding in affirmation. This is one reality that beats reasoning.

Women, Ladies, Girls, this is one aspect you should work on. If you are the kind of person that says, "I am not that kind of person;  listen up; change is the only constant thing on earth, you too can change to a better you. For wives or those in courtship, you get to flow with the kind of person your spouse is. For those who are in the friend zone, be real and natural and also careful so as not be seen as desperate.

3) Any woman that looks and smells so good is always an eye-catcher for any man. Men are visual beings, they are always captivated by what they see and repelled by what they also see. Women are the ones who are moved by what they hear. That's why most men marry women who can excite their sexual ego, their eyes must be heading in the same direction with their choice of a partner. Women, the way you dress and look are super important. Don't go about looking like his mother when you have dropped a kid or two for him. This is the point being stressed when the organizers of King Ahasuerus search for a fair virgin to become his wife couldn't be overemphasized. The beautiful virgins still had to undergo 12months of beauty treatment before they could stand before the king.

Women, do not let the demands of marriage and the family distort the need for you to always look your best. In most cases, men who have affairs outside their matrimonial homes or cheat on their wives were carried away by one lady who was always on point with her dressing, looks, and perfumes. Why do you think most slay queens have to keep slaying, for them its a business and they are after men.

Ladies, be like the Loved one that the Lover spoke about in the Song of Solomon...

" Your teeth are like a flock of newly-shorn sheep coming up from the washing place; each of them has a twin, and not one of them is missing.

"Your lips are like a scarlet thread; your mouth is lovely. Your forehead behind your veil is like a slice of pomegranate.

"Your lips drip sweetness like the honeycomb, my bride, honey and milk are under your tongue. The fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon.

 So in a nutshell, Be a stunner in every possible way and get him to love you more.


4) Any woman whose intellectual prowess is undeniable will make men be attracted to her. The phrase  Beauty with Brains must have originated from the menfolk. They realize that having to be drawn by a woman's beauty isn't sufficient to keep them continuously engaged. In other words, it takes more than beauty to really keep men hooked and drawn to you. Men are visual beings no doubt but on a deeper level, they would die for any woman who is able to challenge them academically and intellectually. Women who possess higher knowledge especially in the things they cherish most such as government, politics, football, technology and whatever it is that really interests them.

Ladies always remember that to be relevant in today's world where an increase of knowledge has become the norm all around, you must also follow the trend by updating and scaling up yours. Read books and read vast, take a course in something relevant in today's world, attain great academic heights, attend seminars, try to know a little about everything not just for him but majorly for yourself or else you become rusty and outdated.

5)Any woman who knows how to multiply a dollar into hundreds of dollars will make a man not think of letting her go. A lot of women have been brought up to depend on men for their finances. Today you hear women calling their spouses or husbands 'My ATM' or My Bank Account. This just connotes one thing; that they get most, if not all of their financial needs from the man. This has made men see women as money puppets. Just as kids are lured by candies so also are the women of this time and age. I personally have never been of this opinion. I strongly believe that a woman should be able to be in control of her own finances. Just as seen in the book of  Proverbs 31, she was very industrious and had businesses that she did and was successful at it. This is one of the reasons why she is acknowledged in this book. She is also the reason why her husband was well known at the city gate.


Having a man provide for you and take care of your needs is absolutely good but it shouldn't be the reason why you can't be financially independent. God made you a helper for a reason, yes even a financial helper. Increase your value by getting a degree, learn a skill, have your own businesses, control your own money and see whether the man won't love and respect you more. So in other words, be a Proverbs 31 Woman who is an industrious wife, a shrewd businesswoman, an enterprising trader, a generous benefactor, and a wise teacher.


6) Any woman who has a good character sets herself to be loved by all men. This attribute also reflects or is seen in the above point. Having a sweet character is what is spoken of in the scriptures as

"Of whom let it not be the outward adorning of braiding of hair, and wearing of gold, or of putting on of fine clothes,

"Rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible attitude of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious before God.


She builds and continuously works on the substance of her inner self, her make-up better than she makes up. She isn't just a beautiful, well enhanced and sexy woman. She is, more importantly, a woman with a sound and sweet character that no man can refuse. A woman of Character is priceless to the Lord and He only makes her path cross with Men that are precious to Him.

7) Any woman who can help a man to become more successful in his approach to life, his thinking and the way he sees himself will always be loved by men. As women, one secret for men to always love and value us is when we always encourage them. Even when it looks there is just nothing but uncertainty to a man's dreams, a woman that can encourage and support that man will make his dreams a successful reality.

Women and ladies, when we act as true helpers and supporters just as God intended when He had us created for a man, we make ourselves irresistible to men who truly value our worth.No doubts, you can not live by these and not be attractive to men and even more loved.

And to the men reading this, I guess my list isn't exhaustive. Let's get to hear from you, what else do (your) woman need to do to always draw from your deep well of love and emotions?


Your Love Coach,
thelovejunkie