CHEAT, CHEATERS, CHEAPEST!

Niyi was such a stunner. He was the kind of man that any lady would catch a glimpse of and would have no choice but exclaim, "Gosh, that guy is fine".  And Niyi knew he was of that breed, the Tall, Dark, Handsome and Pocketful. His fianceè Tiwa was a good match for him. A beauty with all the right curves and subtle edges, she possessed the kind of facial and bodily attributes that would pass that of a goddess. They both were a perfect match made from heaven. Tiwa knew she was well endowed as a lady and would sometimes brag about it to Niyi that she could get any man she wanted in a flash of light. Niyi, on the other hand, was not so much of a talker.  He was level headed and well calculated. These characteristics attracted ladies to him



As time went on, Niyi and Tiwa drifted apart. Their relationship began to lose steam.   It was as a result of Niyi not always having time for her due to his job. He was a banker who was always given targets and had to perform or forfeit his job. This made Tiwa starve emotionally. She wanted more from Niyi but he wasn't trying enough according to her,  despite his efforts to try and make it up to her every time he could.

It wasn't long before Tiwa started seeing someone else unknowing to Niyi. She was two-timing her fiance and the reason for justifying her act was that he wasn't always there for her. She loved Niyi no doubts,  and also loved all the financial support he gave her but what she had for Micheal was nothing more but for her emotional tank that was fueling her bed to be kept full and intriguing. She loved being the center of attraction and she didn't even bother if it was costing her relationship with her fiance. For Micheal, Tiwa was all his. He didn't even care if she was engaged to someone else or not. He was sure to have her for keeps and taking her to cloud nine on all she expected from him was nothing but a piece of cake.


In today's world, the issue of cheating has become a worldwide problem where countless relationships that could have produced the best relationships, marriages, families, and etcetera were truncated. Cheating is a condition where a spouse or partner is having sexual relations with another other than their spouses. Interestingly or I rather say sadly, the world has moved to accept a kind of relationship called Open Relationship were either partner come to an agreement that cheating is allowed and neither of the couple involved would be affected should in case the other cheats.  Such a kind of relationship is beyond bizarre because no one wants to be in a true relationship and still be messing around with other people. This shows that wicked schemes always want to adulterate the original plan. Men, as well as women, were created to be intimate by one and to have carnal knowledge of just one, that's why Eve was created alone for Adam and not also Evina. It has always been God's intention that sexual pleasure should be enjoyed by just two but when one decides to go against and outside that vow, It destroys everything that was once shared.

Cheating on one's partner might not only be sexual, well at least that's what it culminates to for sure. Cheating subtly starts as being emotionally attracted to someone, letting them know and allowing them to become involved with you emotionally even when already been committed to someone else. One of my best TV series is the program called Cheaters. For some reasons, I enjoy watching the reality show and having watch it consistently and seeing the emotional trauma that one partner puts the other through, the grave reactions that come not only from the cheated but also from him or her being used as an object to consolidate the mean action can only prove one thing; the importance of what it means to stay faithful, loyal and committed to one's spouse or partner.


The importance of faithfulness, trustworthiness, and loyalty in a union can not be overemphasized. It is imperative that even Christ himself states that the only reason why one spouse gets a divorce is only on the grounds of consistent cheating or infidelity because such an emotional affair affects the level of intimacy, increases emotional distance and overall affects dynamic balance in any marriage. But then again, He states indirectly that its better to work out that marriage rather than divorcing and going separate because whoever marries a divorced person still commits adultery because marriage is what God joins and not man.   Check this in Matthew 19

 4  He answered them, “Haven’t you read that the one who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female’

 5  and said, ‘That is why a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife, and the two will become one flesh’?

 6  So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, man must never separate.”

 7  They asked him, “Why, then, did Moses order us ‘to give a certificate of divorce and divorce her’?”

 8  He told them, “It was because of your hardness of heart that Moses allowed you to divorce your wives. But from the beginning, it was not this way.

 9  I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”


I hope you see and understand what I was trying to say when I stated above  "He indirectly states".


Individuals who do no show the attributes of faithfulness, loyalty, trust and sexual chastity in love relationships already set themselves in the giving of red flags for a possible cheating lifestyle when in marriage. These set of people are the cheapest lovers. Just as bread is ubiquitous so they are. Unfortunately, the world is full of them in its quiver. You have got to choose to be different so as to attract your kind and be relationship smart.

There are various reasons as to why people cheat, both men and women alike.  Some cheat because they are not getting enough attention, love, and sex from their spouses. Here, men are the major culprit because the last factor is as important to them as their destinies.  While for women, its the first two. Some others cheat because it's just in their nature to lust after other people's lovers. These set of people eventually become chronic at cheating,  living in lies and betrayal towards their spouses all because they didn't deal with this nature when they should have.

Some others cheat because they became victims of circumstance and were not firm enough and also, not disciplined enough to resist such temptation just like the Biblical Joseph was in the hands of Potiphar's wife. For some, it just being stupid, to get back at their partners for something done against them that they could not just forgive and forget. While for some others, it's just bad association, as evil communication corrupts good manners so does having close associates that do not see anything wrong in Cheating do to that fellow.


The reasons for cheating especially in marriages can not be completely exhausted as they are various for different scenarios but one thing is needful and it still boils down to an individual's level of discipline and with the attributes of trust, loyalty, and faithfulness. These are what you squarely look out for when considering choosing a life partner and would not want to hire Joey Greco and his investigation team to help determine your next line of action for your marriage /relationship.

Your Love Coach,
thelovejunkie.





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