We live in a world where the lives of others portrayed on various social media are now being used as a yardstick to run ours. We see ideas and idiosyncrasies of others in the matters of love and relationships being displayed to us daily and unfortunately, some have accepted these as a way to run their own lives without wanting to know the consequences or if there are even certain codes to living the right way and getting the best results.
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For instance, we see how loved up couples; and when I say couples I mean same-sex of which the majority either two males or two females keep sharing their so-called love life with the public making it look like it's totally okay and without an iota of ill feeling to love someone of the same sex. Hey, I tell you, these people do not show you the aspects of their lives that leave a void inside them making them miserable and depressed because it is not the norm. They only show you want they want you to see about their lives. They believe that since love is for a man and a woman who are head over heels for themselves then it should also be for two same-sex people who feel the same way about each other. That's an absolute error and I will tell you why.
Let's take a cue from nature or even animals that we see all around us or even our pets; never would your eyes behold a male dog wanting to mate with another male dog or a female gorilla wanting to have any sensual feelings with another female gorilla. Nature was given to us and even came before us to give us a confirmation of the right order of how things should be done. Nature provides a message that romantic love was never given for a man and another man to share, neither was it for two women to explore because it strongly goes against the normal or goes against nature. It doesn't matter how one's feelings or build-up might deceive them, what matters is how it was originally designed from the beginning.
Adam and Eve were the very first couple to live as man and wife on the surface of the earth and their lives together already gave us all a blueprint of how romantic love should be expressed in humanity. Once love is expressed outside this norm, it becomes an aberration and this only leads to nothing but pain and misery no matter how beautiful it's painted on the outside. Now, the major lesson learned from the life of Adam that I'd love to share was how he protected his wife despite her being the major cause of their fall. When God asked him; Adam who told you that you were naked? Did you eat from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?”. Adams's response wasn't a negative reply of shaming his wife in any way to make her feel useless; neither was it to tell God he made a mistake by bringing a woman into his life that was the major reason for the fall rather, Adam only said it was the woman that gave him the fruit.
Love always covers multiple mistakes and wrongdoings. It is always ready to overlook and let things go. It's never rigid neither does it always want to have its way. Love doesn't give up on that special connection shared in the confines of a marriage relationship no matter what, for love bears all things.
So I believe you have learned this lesson from Adam with me today and I hope when next your spouse makes a blunder, you'd find it in your heart to be quick to cover up their offense and this, in turn, will bring out more love and respect from them. Stay lifted always.
Love Always,
TheLovejunkie
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